So long story short I was on my way home stopped at a roundabout and the VRX just stalled went to start it and it cranked but no fire so i called mitsi_boi and together we went over everything but after all that it ended up being a 20amp engine fuse in the engine bay, also the TCL and ENGINE light came on a few days ago but i just pulled over and turned the car off started it 10 seconds later and all good.

So my question is WTF is something on its way out is something blocked or corroded cos i got NFI

Sometimes when a fuse blows, it is not a problem other than that the fuse has gone brittle through age and heat.
Just replace it and carry on. If there is a problem it will reappear, if it was just the fuse everything will be ok. Carry some spares.

I can tell you I was driving about and randonly my TCL lights and other dash lights would flash up etc and go off. Found out it was a faulty reg on the alternator, fixed the alternator and good as new, but it never stalled though.